Sex &
Intimacy
Re:Kindle
Are You In A Sexless Marriage ?
The Re:Kindle Couples Program Transforms Sexless Marriages Into Intimate, Connected Partnerships In Just 12 weeks
The program helps couples in long-term relationships to rebuild intimacy and sexual connection especially relevant in midlife when desire, stress, and life changes often disrupt intimacy.
Personal. Practical. Results-focused.
This Is What You Have Now?
You don’t hate each other.
There’s no crisis. But the distance is real.
You live together, share life—but intimacy has faded.
Sex has become infrequent, unspoken, or avoided.
You’re not alone. Many long-term couples experience a loss of emotional and sexual connection, especially in mid-life.
People just like you are searching right now these real issues:
“Why has my wife stopped wanting sex?”
“Sexless marriage what to do”
“How to bring intimacy back”
If this feels familiar, the Re:Kindle Couples Programme helps rebuild emotional and sexual connection through a clear, structured approach.
Explore the Sexless Marriage page to understand this pattern. Read about the Re:Kindle Couples Program for a real-time solution.
The Result
Many couples experience:
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less tension around intimacy
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more open communication
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increased physical affection
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a renewed sense of closeness
It takes commitment - but meaningful change is possible.
Why a Program?
A structured, guided approach focused on rebuilding connection step by step, tailored to your relationship. Enables you to:
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Rebuild emotional and physical connection
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Improve communication and closeness
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Reconnect intimacy and sexual desire
What makes it different
This is not a generic course or one-size-fits-all approach - this is focused, personalised support designed for real change.
This Is What You Could Have In Just 12 weeks
Emotional reconnection with increased sexual intimacy & relationship closeness
With commitment this is totally achievable
See testimonials from real clients
Who is the Re:Kindle Program for?
The one reading this. The one who isn't.
The hopeful. The hesitant.
The frustrated. The rejected.
And for everyone else wanting renewed sexual energy in the marriage
Hi, I’m SarahLou
I work with couples in long-term relationships who have lost sexual intimacy, helping them rebuild emotional and sexual connection.
The Re:Kindle Programme provides a structured, practical way to move from disconnection back to closeness, addressing the real factors that affect intimacy — including ageing, emotional distance, physical changes, and relationship patterns
Who I Am & My Approach
My Background
I’m a certified Couples Coach and Mentor, trained inSex Therapy, Relationship Coaching, and emotional wellbeing approaches including REBT and Trauma-informed yoga.
Previously, I worked as a Family and Matrimonial Lawyer and Mediator, and Foster Carer giving me first-hand insight into the impact of relationship breakdown.
This combined experience led me to specialise in intimacy and connection in long-term relationships.
Individual Coaching Sessions
Women, Libido & Intimacy Coaching
Intimacy begins with knowing and loving yourself. Lets start there.
Many women in their 40s and beyond experience changes in libido, arousal, and sexual confidence, often linked to menopause, hormonal shifts, and life stress.
This can show up as low desire, difficulty with arousal or orgasm, or discomfort during sex.
Individual sessions provide a private, supportive space to understand and reconnect with your body, desire, and confidence.
Individual Sex & Intimacy Coaching Sessions
If you prefer to begin individually or want clarity before committing to the full program or want support around a specific concern, individual sessions are available as a couple or individually. Suitable for :
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Exploring desire differences before involving your partner
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Gaining clarity about your own sexual concerns
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Preparing for couples work
"I thought my sex life was over once I hit menopause, boy was I wrong. Thanks SarahLou our sex life is now better than it is has ever been. Huge, huge thanks."
Sonya 50
Men, Libido & Intimacy Coaching
For men reclaiming confidence & satisfaction in intimacy
Men dont just want more sex, they want to be desired too. And like women they also grieve the body they once had - their masculine self. Its a hard blow to lose this prowess. Lower testosterone, ED and other issues affect performance.
Practical guidance, exercises, and honest support is available.
"Instantly put me at ease. Thank you for giving me the confidence & strategies I needed. Gen 56
Sex and Intimacy Coaching can also help you understand your sexual identity and explore & explain hidden desires and move forward accordingly.
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Explore New Desires & Pleasures
Unsure why your turn-ons feel different from others? Feeling unfulfilled or curious about your erotic self?
Sex & Intimacy coaching gives you strategies to explore your desires hand fantasies, however wild, safely and consensually
"Self-Censorship Is Where Desire Goes To Hide"
Date and Intimacy Coaching - learn what you really want, and how and where get it. The Dating Game explained. I can help steer you through shark infested waters and get you to solid ground.